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BECOME THE MAN YOU WANT BE.

Stop wondering if you’ve messed up.

Being a single guy can be tough. Discover how you can be content & love your single season.

Be content in your identity.

Become a better version of yourself.

Find opportunities you didn’t know you had.

Step 1

Uncover Identity

Discover the Four Step Approach

Learn how to operate from who God says you are.

Step 2

Find Freedom

Become the healthiest version of yourself.

Step 3

Notice Opportunities

Discover 10 unique opportunities you have as a single man.

Step 4

Pursue Wisely

Learn when, why, where, and how to pursue a woman.

  • "Singleness is not a curse. It is a gift—a privilege that should be stewarded for the glory of God. In this book, Sam shows how to do that. Sam shows us an ancient path, rooted in Scripture, pointing us to the most remarkable man who has ever lived: King Jesus. Who, by the way, was single. Enjoy the journey."

    Dr. Chris Harper, CEO, BetterMan

  • "Sam has made a great resource for men, who like me need to take this time in your life more serious. It is so important to address these issues now so that you can be all God called you to be when the time is right to pursue a woman! Marriage is not the end all be all and I promise it won’t fix all your problems. Let this book guide you through this season before you embark onto the next chapter!"

    —Christian Huff, Founder, 4:8 Men

  • "As someone who is always trying to redeem my time for the glory of God and the good of others, I find Reclaiming Singleness to be a compelling guide that frames time as a divine gift, urging us to embrace every moment. The book challenges single men to invest in their spiritual growth and intentional living, while highlighting that singleness is not a problem to solve, but an opportunity to grow closer to God. Reclaiming Singleness offers practical advice and the potential for significant personal and spiritual returns. If you're a single man, this book is for you!"

    —Jordan Raynor, bestselling author of Redeeming Your Time and The Sacredness of Secular Work

  • "Who you marry is arguably the most important decision you'll make this side of heaven. But what about the "who" for the woman you might marry? Who is that person becoming? And, if you never marry this side of heaven, but know Jesus, there will be a marriage supper one day and you'll be a guest of honor. Who is that person becoming? What I love about this book is that it's not just a book on singleness, it's a refreshing look at identity and who you're becoming. Written with humility and genuine compassion for young men, Sam provides an eternal perspective for living fully alive for the Kingdom of God in your season of singleness."

    —Joshua Straub, Ph.D., Co-founder and author, Famous at Home

  • "Reclaiming Singleness offers a powerful and timely exploration of what it means to be a single man through a biblical lens in today’s culture. It challenges cultural stereotypes and provides a refreshing perspective on singleness, emphasizing purpose, identity, and spiritual growth. With practical wisdom and deep theological insight, this book empowers single men to embrace their unique season of life with confidence and clarity, grounding their journey in God's truth and preparing them for whatever He has in store. Who you are becoming today will prepare you for how God will use you tomorrow. Don’t waste this valuable time of influence and preparation. I’m grateful for my friend Sam McManus, who has written such a helpful and timely book!"

    —Jonathan Morrow, author of Welcome to College: A Christ Follower’s Guide for the Journey and Cultural Engagement and Student Discipleship Director, Impact 360 Institute

  • "The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. It’s only green where you water it. God has you uniquely placed exactly where you are supposed to be. Learning to embrace that truth and maximize the season of life you’re in is much easier said than done. Reclaiming Singleness is an incredible guide to help you learn to steward the season God has you in to the best of your ability."

    —Hampton Dortch, Host, Wake Up and Lead Podcast

  • "Reclaiming Singleness provides a comprehensive roadmap to fulfill the life God has for you and different ways you can take ownership of your life. This book shows that you have a high and noble calling right here and now in your singleness. Take back your God-given identify and do the work to become the man God has called you to be and watch Him transform you forever."

    —Matt Long, Host, No Man Is An Island Podcast

  • "Reclaiming Singleness is more than just a guide—it’s a call to arms for men in their singleness. Sam doesn’t just offer advice; he equips you with the tools to turn this season into one of deep purpose and spiritual growth. His focus on identity and mission resonates deeply with the conversations I have on my podcast, where men are seeking to live fully for God, not waiting for some future moment to begin their journey. Reclaiming Singleness is a must-read for any man ready to embrace his singleness with intention and purpose today."

    —Carlton French, Host, The Single Man Podcast

Singleness can be tough.

I lived for many years thinking that marriage was the goal in life. But this just led to a life of frustration and discontentment.

Then I decided to take the time to understand my identity, find freedom from sins, and go all-in to the opportunities before me.

That’s when I became outrageously content with where God had me.

It’s Time to Own You Single Season